I found this interesting and worth of my time to read and think of my own opinions based on my own experiences about these 11 points. Here we go :
1. Agree with this one, even though sometimes it is unavoidable. What I do when I let myself slipped into this "unnecessary sentimental moment," I think of what it would do to my present life now. I think about the damage that has been done and it makes me willing to let this feeling go, once again. Sometimes, just cry it out loud! It helps released the pain ;)
2. Disagree on some moments. I actually LOVE to remember good ole' times and play it in my head, talk about it and it puts a smile on my heart and face. But, if those good times are too painful for you and it makes you sad thinking about it, then maybe you should start creating a new happy memory instead of living in a make believe paradise, but it was in the past!. NOW is your time.
3. Depends on the who, what, time, and place's factors. It is hard to hide our feelings when we are sad, having a crush on someone, or when we are mad but we can't be mad at that person for some reasons lol.
4. Yes, its hard, but trust me it is for the best. There is no need to waste your time loving someone who does not deserve your best. It is easier and so much fun to love someone who loves us in return!. But, yes, this point is hard and painful, especially in a case of unfaithfulness.
5. End the commitment or better yet, never jump into one when we already know it will not worth a commitment. Be wise though, if it is just a temporary feeling then hold onto it because there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. But, if that relationship is wrong from all aspects, then end it!
6. There are people who do not deserve our best and there are people who is no longer available, such as married people, LOL.
7. Too much love will kill you?. Love is the most special feeling, words and action a human being could offer to another human. However, if this love means you do not have filter of what is wrong and right, then you should understand that love has characters :
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8. Huh?!? If it is not meant to be, it will not be together. Do not push it because you will ended up hurting yourself, others and those who deserve your love. If A is a married woman, then she is not for you, it is not about the time, it is about loving/wanting the wrong person. If you were poor when you dated her and she left you, it was not because the time was not right, it is simply means she does not deserve you when you are successful. On the other hand, if you are already in a relationship/marriage life, there is no such thing as I got married at the wrong time. You might not got married on a right time (no job, no financial support, not done with school, etc) but it is too late now. You have a responsibility and commitment that you need to fight for in life. No more lame, lazy and pathetic excuses. Just work what you have and be good at it! ;)
9. If the person is available, then why the heck not?!? You will not find a new love if you keep living in your imaginary "old love". Life must moves on and yes, take the risk to love again. You never know that the right person might be this one. I took a risk and I was right to do that!
Click to read my previous post about "Fear To Fall In Love Again?".
10. Accepting is very hard to do but necessary for your own good. It is painful at times, but trust me, those who are not belong to your future, will get eliminated. It is just like ripping a bandage lol. You will thank God one day when you understand why that person get eliminated in the past.
11. This is why we must take a risk to fall in love again, to let go, to forgive, to trust again, to learn, to share, to moves on, to give it a try, because you would rather live with "Hey, oh well..at least I tried!" instead of "What if?".
xoxo,
Lindsay
