I Am Already Disturb, Please Come In

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LOL!!

People tend to do the things we told them not to do
or should I say, "rules are meant to be broken?,"

This sign should do it!

*still laughing*

Sometimes what we need to do in life is to let other people know how we really feel at that moment, that way they will not pushed your button or disturbed you when you need your holy moment of "Me Time" and you will not hurt them with your attitude or words. 

When we stressed out, 

we tend to say and do things that we do not mean to do, 

but a tired body and mind could not think straight. 

Everyone needs a break, a rest, a time to re-think and re-energized the body, soul, mind..life. Many of us think that we could not do that because there are so many people and things that depended on us and therefore we have no time to rest, re-think, re-energized ourselves, even when we need it.

Many times, we let ourselves down in order to make other people happy or functioned. It may sound selfish, but the benefits of you taking care of you is huge. You may never know what a five minutes rest or an hour or a day of "do not disturb" me moment will do to yourself (and others).

Marriage is the field of learning what to do and what not to do!

First year of my marriage, I tend to think and expected my husband to know me, to understand me, and then to  realized that he is actually clueless (he is not a mind reader).

When I am down, sad or stressed out, I expected my husband to just know it, but he did not. Men says that women are mysterious. That might be a surprise for us, women, because we think we are a VERY easy creature, "what not to love and what not to understand's" thought, but we are wrong. Women are complicated compare to men. I learned more about this after I got married. HA!

I, sometimes, do not understand me!

...LOL...

Hormonal, complicated feelings, circumstances, blah blah.. that is not the case. If you feel like you are in a bad mood, you should tell your spouse. Tell them specifically what you want to do, need to do and what you expected from them to help you out. There are times that they might not be able to help you out, because it is your own problem and you are the one who should help yourself out, but many times they are a great helper. If you do not tell others what you are feeling, they might take it personally. Many times, they (spouse, kids, etc) are the problem, but sometimes they are not the problem, but they are the one who get yelled at and that will hurt them.

Do yourself a favor and save yourself!

:)

I took a huge leap of faith when I quit my job,my source of income, my comfort zone. But, it was the right time to do so because I was going insane with my over worked body. I was exhausted mentally, physically and drained spiritually. I need a rest in order for me to re-arrange my own life to be a better me. I feel a lot better after that break and loving my life again.

We need to be brave,

do not over think or over analyze something that is actually a very simple issue. 

Sometimes, all you need to do is to re-think, re-energized, re-arrange your life and to let others know that you need that "Me Time" or "I am already disturb, please come in" sign and I betcha..nobody will mess with you at that time!

For those who did not get it (lol)

*It is not an invitation, it is a warning sign*

xoxo,

Lindsay

Comfort Zone Is Boring!

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This is my AHA!!! moment today.

A ship is built to sail, to explore the beauty of the oceans, to take you places, to experience adventures.

'Though when it is not doing all that, the ship will stayed in port, afloat, safe but going nowhere.

If only a ship could talk,

I am sure it will be like this, 

"Let's Sail!"

Our lives sometimes are way too boring,

because we hold onto our past (or present),

we hang onto our safe harbor,

we do not want to let go the comfort zone to the unknown zone!

I mean it is pretty much understandable that some people are willing to take risks more than others,

But it is not acceptable that some people would rather die holding onto their death wishes than to chase their dreams!

What do you want to do with your life?

What legacy would you like your kids to remember you someday?

What dreams that you still wanted to accomplish in life?

What nightmares that you wanted to let go, even if you think you could not do?

TRY!

Get out of your comfort zone,

Explore the unknown world,

You might like it!

If you hate it,

You could always comeback to your own "known" zone,

But at least you have tried instead of wondering.

I took a chance to come to the unknown country,

Live by myself,

Fighting for life,

Surviving the impossible

..and..

I could proudly say, I live my dreams because I took a step of faith to try first!

My journey is not always fun and all that,

It has ups and downs,

It's never easy to live in other people's country,

Without any immediate family member or friends that go to school and play with you since childhood.

Not everyone has the same destiny and path in life,

Not everyone has the same exact dreams, wants and needs in life,

But everyone has dreams, wishes, wants and needs in life.

Not everyone is brave enough to take a chance/risk,

Dreamers are those who likes to sleep,

Doers are those who lives their dreams.

Wake up,

be who you are created/meant to be,

make your dream come true by doing it.

A bird will never know she could fly until she try it.

You will never know how far you will go until you take a first step

and discover your strength, ability and greater self.

There is always a next port in your journey,

if you don't like the next port,

you could go to the next port after that, 

or you could always go back to the first one.

But at least you had experiences to remember,

Lesson to learn,

Story to tell,

A life to inspired other people.

God created you and I with a big dream and vision on His mind,

do not limit your God given talent by hiding it,

covered with fear and lack of faith,

or too lazy to even try it.

xoxo,

Lindsay